Keeping your relationship vibrant, sexy, and romantic is part of your job as a husband. Most of us love to make our wives smile, and sending a text message that lights her up every single day is an easy way to make her day great as well as your own.

There’s only one problem—what should you send her?

You obviously don’t want to make her think you’re just trying to sext her, but you also want to stay true to how you feel without being too over-the-top. Finding a compromise begins with getting inspired.

That’s why we’ve come up with a short list of text messages that you can send to your wife at any time of the day or night. The trick is to put your own unique spin on them, so that she knows it came from your heart.

Check out a few realistic text messages you can send your wife when you’re away.


“Hey babe, Do we have any plans tonight or this weekend? I’d really like to do something with just us two.”


“Let’s watch our favorite show tonight!”


“Can we try to get to bed earlier tonight so we can have more alone time between us”


“Want to do something this weekend? There’s a new movie you might like!”


“Hey beautiful, I was thinking let’s plan a few at home movie nights to save money for a nice date down the road.”


“I’m thinking of you and wanted to tell you that I love you.”


“Is your wish list updated? I was thinking about getting you something nice but just wanted to make sure the list is current.”


“If our love were a movie I would title it  “I’m never going to let you go.” coincidentally that would be the same title to a few kidnapping movies.”